Time .. ..

Is it really VERY VERY difficult to spare a little time for a chat?? or even for a meal?? Dun tell me there are people who are really so busy that they dun eat??

Or izzit that I lead a very slack life with plenty of time in my hands and dun realise that there are people who dun haf time to eat?? even when someone invited them?? I dun understand.. ..

I feel so angry.. ..
I dun believe.. ..

Me finally bought CDs liao!!! I bought S.H.E <<旅程版>> and also 小美’s <<又寂寞又美丽>>精选.. .. But i only listened to <<又寂寞又美丽>> CD1 den my discman no batt.. Anyway, i m very happy coz bought 2 good CD.. ~Hee.. ..

Today went 兜风 with my cousin and her darling.. Actually want to go to her house to burn CD but they brought me here and there to run their errands.. in the end, i reached their house only at 5pm.. .. Oh ya.. they also brought me to 安邦酿豆腐.. it is very nice!!!
Den.. Her computer is super slow.. I took about 2hrs to rename 59 photos.. haiz..
But i m like a VIP in her house.. After my Maggi mee dinner, still got ice cream (she even deco it like those at cafe) and ginseng coffee.. so nice.. ..

CD Spree tml.. ..

tml got english mock test.. haiz.. super sian.. need to wake up early for that st*pid test.. BUT!! i have decided to buy S.H.E 旅程版 tml.. Do i sound crazy?? HA.. Anyway, although i have the 奇幻版， I like the 旅程版.. it is so soothing and relaxing.. ..

let u guys compare.. ..



Yeah.. .. .. .. ..

Went to Jin's blog and found this test..
Wonder wat does this sign means..


what warning label are you?


Izzit I am very approachable??
Hm. .. ... Must be.. ..

包容 (III)

＊＊＊欣賞彼此的特質＊＊＊
這使我一下子了解,以前在心理學書籍上見到的一段話---“無論情人或朋友,起初都可能被彼此的特質所吸引,但是交往之後,又可能因為討厭那種特質而分手.
如果能撐過去,就會愈來愈習慣對方的個性,變成彼此容納,彼此欣賞.”
可不是嗎?我們處處看見,花蝴蝶似的女生和書呆子的男生作好朋友;
運動型的男人,卻娶了個林黛玉.怎麼想,他們都處不在一起.
卻另人”跌破眼鏡”地,成為了另人羨慕的一對.
這不就因為他們彼此容忍,諒解”對方的缺點”,甚至把那缺點看成優點嗎?　　

＊＊＊天下人都讚美鮑叔牙＊＊＊
想起鮑叔牙和管仲.鮑叔牙和管仲合夥做生意,管仲總在分錢的時候,多分給自己一些.
可是鮑叔牙認為不是管仲貪心,而是因為家窮.
管仲為鮑叔牙計畫事情,愈弄愈糟,鮑叔牙不認為管仲笨,說只是時運不佳.
兩個人一起去打仗,管仲三戰三逃,鮑叔牙不認為管仲膽小,只知他有老母在堂.
甚至當管仲被抓,還是鮑叔牙去向齊桓公保薦,使管仲成為宰相.
每次我在{史紀}上讀到這一段,總笑笑,心想:”這世上有幾個人能做到鮑叔牙的境界?換作我啊,早翻了!”
怪不得司馬遷說:”天下人不太讚美管仲的才能,反而多半讚美鮑叔牙的”知人”.
只是,我也想,他們若不是好朋友,且彼此欣賞對方的人格特質,
鮑叔牙豈能總從”正面”去看管仲”負面”的表現呢?　　　


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Hebe??

Accidently came across this picture and I m wondering if the gal in the picture is Hebe..
Hmm .. .. ..



I think it should be Hebe.. She looked so pretty here.. Not tt "fierce" leh.. ..

TruE friEndsHip.. .. ..

I have always been very envy about the friendship of S.H.E... Whether their friendship is real or not, I am still very envy.. .. After S.H.E came to S'pore, I am even more envy.. And this makes me think what TRUE FRIENDSHIP really is.. Although I have been pondering about this question for quite some time, the feeling of doubt is more strong after S.H.E came..

Who can resolve my doubt??
What is true friendship??
好朋友的定义又是什么??
友谊是天长地久，还是曾经拥有呢??

???


S.H.E has a song in their 奇幻旅程album.. I like the lyrics very much.. It talks about friendship.. And I envy that.. ..

一起开始的旅程
忽然想到一起开始的旅程 这几个字有种温暖的气氛
如果用来形容我们 是不是很巧妙传神

从没想过事情会这样发生 原本陌生的人闯进了人生
从此生命中多出你们 也多出无限可能

一起作伴 一起游玩 一起分享青春的宝藏
一起前进 一起转弯 一起想下一个梦想

My baby You baby 什么都不想错过
用心感动 这旅程中 因你而加倍的感动
My baby You baby 让我多记下一些沿路感受
那将会是我 最美最好的收获

这是一段我们秘密的旅程 别人很难了解其中的兴奋
可惜没空理会他们 我在意的只有你们


So?? How is it??

???

Hmm.. .. today i feel a bit weird weird.. dunno y.. izzit coz that today is the 13th of the month?? dunno.. juz have mixed feelings.. ..

1. feeling very happy and excited coz yesterday i went to S.H.E 签唱会.. finally got to see Ella and shook their hands.. so happy..

2. feel like being a popstar like S.H.E

3. feel like knowing S.H.E better.. want them to know and recognise me..

4. want to be a DJ or reporter so that can have close contact with popstars.. especially S.H.E..

5. feel very sian after tuition.. coz the boy doesn't listen to me..

6. 感 到 无 能.. ..


Haiz.. ..so many feelings at the same time.. ..

S.H.E RuleZ!!!

Yeah!!! !!! I got S.H.E signatures on my 奇幻 CD!!!!

I first went to the ZaoBao S.H.E PopParty to have a closer contact with S.H.E.. Not bad man.. I think they are very "real" ie they dun act cool or think that they are superstars.. but, they do act cute.. they are really CUTE!! Especially Ella.. Finally got to see her.. She is super friendly and super comfortable with the fans.. Selina is not bad either... So Pretty!! Ok.. The three of them are very very pretty.. But Hebe is very cool.. Juz like her character.. Good!! 有性格!! 我喜欢!!! OK, although i didn got their attention or any gifts, I m still very happy.. coz at least i got a close look at them and experienced their realness.. ..

OK.. after the PopParty, of course I went to their 签唱会.. But me and Cherry are very yaya.. we still went for dinner at LOng John Silver although it is already 6.40.. Really Very yaya hor?? ?? BUt when we queued nicely for te signature, SUDDENLY.. Everything went into chaos.. A queue is not a queue liao.. It has become a crowd of crowd.. .. Everyone is packed like sandwiches and the "queue: doesn't seem to move.. So.. ya.. Cherry decided to quit.. BUT NOT ME!! I M VERY DETERMINED!! but anyway, i quitted (temporary) for a break at BK with Cherry, Peiyan and a new fren, HuiJuan.. .. .. .. ..

Wah.. After the break, we are all refreshed.. Thanks to Peiyan and HuiJuan's strategic queueing and squeezing, we FINALLY squeezed through the crowd and got to the line!!! YEAh!! (time: 11pm)

According to ZaoBao:
"华研唱片公关告诉记者，原本签唱会在晚上9时许就要禁止歌迷排队，因恐怕签不完这么多人。然而，S.H.E却不想让大家失望，最后决定通过申请，延长活动时间，让更多的人获得签名。"

See??? Isn't S.H.E great?! I can really see that they are very very tired.. Especially Ella, who has juz recovered from her spine injury.. But she (Ella) still gave us a BROAD smile when she autographed our album.. She even said "辛苦了".. so sweeet.. .. .. I even got to shook their hands!! (though their hands must be very tired from the 5 hours of autograph)


辛苦你们了!!!!



*** will upload my photos when i learnt how to do tt***

went to Milennia Walk TCC with paulynn to try out the food voucher.. .. too bad, only got 4 main course..but got sandwiches n lots of beverages.. .. i ate a dory fish main course, a cup of hazelnut frappe and dessert.. guess how much?? <12bucks!!! !!! cheap hor?!!

the ambience there is not bad.. i like the chairs.. a little bit like rocking chair.. not bad not bad.. .. found a new place for chit chatting liao.. ..

My first time to a school concert.. .. Not a Co concert lah.. BUt to Zhang Shao Han school mini concert.. although she is very small size, she has quite powerful vocal leh.. especially for her encore.. she is not oblige to sing encore (the DJ discourage coz she still got tong1 gao4 at 9pm and it is 7.30pm already) but she insisted in singing an encore.. so professional.. .. .. .. ..

I think she is very zi4 ran2.. can click wif fans very well.. .. N i m surprised that she has a super loyal fanclub liao.. Maybe coz she acted in dramas before.. Oh ya, I like her <>.. super nice drama.. those who haven watched, go n buy the vcd!!!

包容 (II)

二.我有個老朋友,也很愛說話,他不但愛說,而且愛現.
偏偏我又是個極韜光的人,走在路上唯恐被認出來.
所以當我們一起出遊,他在路上耍寶時,我就偷偷走開.
他也很會開車,而且開的是特別”拉風”的車.在人潮擁擠的路上,還要東鑽西鑽,好幾次被人指著鼻子罵.
可是最近,我回台灣,坐他的車,發現他居然變慢了.
慢慢地,一下一下,輕輕地踩油門.別的車在後面按喇叭,才如夢初醒似的,往前開快些.
還很新的跑車,在感覺突然變成了老車,他豪爽的笑不見了,空氣變的很沉悶.臨走,
他低著頭,慢慢地穿鞋,道別的聲音也快聽不見了.
我終於耐不住,追個電話過去.“沒什麼.”他淡淡的說:”事業不太順......”
放下電話,我也有種要哭的感覺.我多麼希望他還是那個纔能把一屋子的人,逗得捧腹的老樣子.
我發現自己過去嫌他,怨他,甚至罵他太愛表現,卻又總喜歡找他,正因為”他逗趣得可愛”.
我愛他的,正是嫌他的;他的優點,正是他的缺點.
反過來說;我嫌他的,正是愛他的;他的缺點,也正是他與眾不同的”人格特質”.　　　

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包容

"我的兒子雖然是獨生子,可是非但沒有大男人主義,
有時候我覺得,他還有點大女人主義,處處強調女權,為女生說話.
譬如有一天我對他說:”希望你未來能娶個有幫夫運的太太.”話還沒完,
他就說:”為什麼要幫夫運?也可以是我幫妻呀!要彼此幫助嘛!”
我一時語塞,改口說:”最起碼,要個性溫柔.”
他又不同意說:”何必要溫柔?每個人都該有自己的個性,有時候表現出個性,反而可愛.”
我氣死了,轉身走開,不再跟他多講.可是靜下來,
想想他的話,也想想我見過的許多”有個性的人”卻覺得他也蠻有道理.
尤其發生的兩件事,更使我有許多感觸.

一.我太太以前辦公室,有個精力旺盛的女職員,四十多歲,嗓門特大,又愛說話.
常常一件小事,到她嘴裡,就成了大事.辦公室裡的人,都覺得這女人吵,
甚至有人建議我太太,把她調到別的部門.
但不知從何開始,她居然漸漸不再多話,聲音也變柔和了.
每天下班,提起皮包就走,再也不留下來找人瞎扯.大家正覺得奇怪,她卻突然請長假.
又個隔了一陣子,這女人突然死了,死於肺癌.
臨死,許多同事去看她,見到瘦得不成人形的她,
一個個都掉下眼淚,說:”好希望妳回來上班,好懷念妳的聲音,從妳不說話,辦公室都變冷清了.”

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i bought my first copy of Hits Poster coz the cover is S.H.E.. but guess wat?? there's only one page of S.H.E stuffs!!! !!! Kena cheated!!! Y they dun haf S.H.E poster??!! it has sammi, kelly, twins, edison blah blah blah.. .. BUT NO S.H.E !!! !!! !!! Y??!!

Yeah man.. my leg hurts.. Skye's THICK bio tx dropped on my left foot yesterday!! i went back home den discover tt my foot is bruised liao.. .. not juz that, my right leg's calf also bruised.. that book really very powerful..